Last weekend at Byram Hills we had an interesting
conversation during downtime. We were talking about running waitlists for a variety
of tournaments, and in general about the schools that sign up. For the most
part, we’re agnostic. As long as an entry is officially sanctioned by its school,
we let them in. When it comes to waitlists we’re number crunchers, not judge
and jury.
But with some schools, we cringe every time we click the box
to let in another of their entries. These are the schools that will bring
untrained judges, that will gladly pay you Tuesday for a hamburger today
(although they will eventually pay you), that beg you to let them leave before
their obligations are fulfilled because they have a whole ten minute ride to
get home and they don’t want to miss the next episode of America’s Got
Malevolence. As a rule, most of these are student-run operations, or at best
parent-run with the students pulling the strings, but occasionally some are
coach run. One thing they all seem to have in common is a complete lack of alums.
That is, their students, who no doubt claim that debate was the most important
thing in their high school careers, disappear at the first opportunity. They do
not give back, not even if you pay them.
Take a look at the people you think are the best coaches
around. I guarantee you that they have committed alums. I guarantee you that
they remain connected to their alums long after they stop trying to cajole them
into judging one more time. Let’s face it. A coach will work with a student for
four years, traveling regularly either to a local event or across the country.
They’ll prep, they’ll brainstorm, they’ll eat lunch, they’ll ride endless
buses. If a positive relationship doesn’t arise from all of this, something is
wrong. Schools with no coaches never get to see this, which may be why the
alums aren’t particularly committed to their schools and teams. That’s almost
more understandable, albeit sad, than schools where there are coaches, and
those coaches can’t get an alum to come back for love or money. You’ve got to
ask yourself, what were those coaches doing wrong?
I don’t measure good coaching by the number of wins versus
losses. No one will care about that once a student goes to college. Life moves
on. Good coaching is measured by the amount students learned, whether or not
they ever won a round, and in our world, that learning begins with but extends
far beyond the topic du jour and the mechanics of a 1AR. Relationships that last
beyond graduation day are the means of making that measurement, the criterion
of the value of education, if you will.
The difference between a good team and a bad team is the
difference between a bunch of students looking to win rounds for themselves as
individuals, and an actual team, with dedicated leadership, looking to make a
difference for life. Which is what education is all about. A good coach is the
mark of that difference.
1 comment:
"...an actual team, with dedicated leadership, looking to make a difference for life."
I like that a lot. I remember one thing we stressed on my HS team was competing fairly and with integrity. That the win was less important than treating your opponent with respect. Definitely one of the things that makes a "difference for life."
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